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OUT FROM UNDER: The IMPACT of HOMOSEXUAL PARENTING

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Dawn Stefanowicz In Interview - Bible Series On The History Channel: 03-03-2013

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LISTEN - Drew Marshall Show – Dawn Stefanowicz – Guest September 4, 2010

Interviews with Dawn   Press Release   Promo Sheet   Speaker's Flyer

 

VIDEO - What Do You Have To Lose? Dawn's Thoughts From A Children's Perspective 

Dawn's Testimony

My name is Dawn Stefanowicz, I grew up in a homosexual household during the 60s and 70s in Toronto, exposed to many different people in GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, bisexual, Transsexual) subcultures, and explicit sexual practices. As well, I was a witness at the Standing Senate Committee on Legal and Constitutional Affairs on Bill C-250 (hate crimes) in 2004, and I have presented at the local school board. Since then, I have testified in the following areas: Hartford, Connecticut; Boston, Massachusetts; Tallahassee, Florida; Olympia, Washington State; Annapolis, Maryland; Des Moines, Iowa; Australia, Argentina, and Paraguay. I have addressed audiences in person in Canada, the United States, Ireland, Mexico, and Paraguay and world-wide through radio, television, and print interviews. I speak to various audiences by request and have a number of published articles. As an advocate for children and families, pertaining to marriage, parenting, sexuality, and education, I am a resource to family policy, legislative, medical, research, and scholastic organizations. Here is a safe place for adult children from similar households. Out From Under: The Impact Of Homosexual Parenting is available by calling 1-877-421- 7323 (READ). The Spanish publication of Out From Under is El Impacto De La Paternidad HomosexualSalir Del Hoyo is available at: https://www.createspace.com/3927446. The Italian publication of Out From Under is Fuori Dal buio: La Mia Vita Con Un Padre Gay is available at:  http://www.ares.mi.it/index.php?pagina=libro&id=552&q=Fuori-dal-buio . Resources are available at http://www.dawnstefanowicz.org. Dawn and her husband have been been married for twenty-eight years and have two children.

My biggest concern is that children are not being discussed in this same-sex marriage debate. Yet, won't the next step for some gay activists be to ask for legal adoption of children if same-sex marriage is legalized? I have considered some of the potential physical and psychological health risks for children raised in this situation. I was at high risk of exposure to contagious STDs due to sexual molestation, my father's high-risk sexual behaviors, and multiple partners. Even when my father was in what looked like monogamous relationships, he continued cruising for anonymous sex.

I came to deeply care for, love and compassionately understand my dad. He shared his life regrets with me. Unfortunately, my father, as a child, was sexually and physically abused by older males. Due to this, he lived with depression, control issues, anger outbursts, suicidal tendencies, and sexual compulsions. He tried to fulfill his legitimate needs for his father's affirmation, affection and attention with transient and promiscuous relationships. He and his partners were exposed to various contagious STD's as they traveled across North America. My father's (ex)partners, whom I had deep caring feelings for and associated with, had drastically shortened lives due to suicide, contracting HIV or Aids. Sadly, my father died of AIDS in 1991.

Are my childhood experiences unique? According to a growing number of personal testimonies, experts, and organizations, there is mounting evidence of strong commonalities to my personal experiences. Not only do children do best with both a mother and a father in a lifelong marriage bond, children need responsible monogamous parents who have no extramarital sexual partners. Parental promiscuity, abuse and divorce are not good for children. If same-sex marriage is legalized, a person, couple or group who practice any form of sexual behavior would eventually be able to obtain children through previous heterosexual relationships, new reproductive technologies, and adoption due to the undefined term sexual orientation. This would force all public and private adoption agencies to hand over children into experimental relationships or risk charges of discrimination.

What is the most suitable environment for children to be born or adopted into? The many personal, professional and social experiences with my father did not teach me respect for morality, authority, marriage, and paternal love. I felt fearfully silenced as I was not allowed to talk about my dad, his male housemates, his lifestyle and encounters within the subcultures without being browbeaten and threatened by my father. While I lived at home, I had to live by his rules. Yes, I loved my dad. However, I felt abandoned and neglected as my needs were not met since my father would often leave suddenly to be with his partners for days. His partners were not really interested in me. I was outraged at the incidences of same-sex domestic abuse, sexual advances toward minors, and loss of sexual partners as if people were only commodities. I sought comfort looking for my father's love from boyfriends starting at 12 years old.

From a young age, I was exposed to explicit sexual speech, self-indulgent lifestyles, varied GLBT subcultures and gay vacation spots. Sex looked gratuitous to me as a child. I was exposed to all inclusive manifestations of sexuality including bathhouse sex, cross-dressing, sodomy, pornography, gay nudity, lesbianism, bisexuality, minor recruitment, voyeurism and exhibitionism. Sado-masochism was alluded to and aspects demonstrated. Alcohol and drugs were often contributing factors to lower inhibitions in my father's relationships.

My father prized unisex dressing, gender-neutral aspects and a famous cross-dressing icon when I was eight years old. I did not see the value of biological complementing differences of male and female or think about marriage. I made vows to never have children since I had not grown up in a safe, sacrificial, child-centered home environment. Due to my life experience, I ask, "Can children really perform their best academically, financially, psychologically, socially and behaviorally in experimental situations?" I can tell you that I suffered long term in this situation, and this has been professionally documented.

Over two decades of direct exposure to these stressful experiences caused me insecurity, depression, suicidal thoughts, dread, anxiousness, low self-esteem, sleeplessness and sexuality confusion. My conscience and innocence were seriously damaged. I witnessed that every other family member suffered severely as well.

It took me until I was into my 20s and 30s, after making major life choices, to begin to realize how being raised in this environment affected me. My healing encompassed facing reality, accepting long-term consequences, and offering forgiveness. Can you imagine being forced to tolerate unstable relationships and diverse sexual practices from a young age and how this affected my development? My gender identity, psychological well-being, and peer relationships were affected. Unfortunately, it was not until my father, his sexual partners and my mother had died, was I free to speak publicly about my experiences.

I believe same-sex marriage will dispose of unique values esteemed within marriage as recognized throughout history. Marriage needs to remain a societal foundation that constitutes, represents, and defends the inherently procreative relationship between the husband and the wife for the welfare of their biological children. Children need consistent appropriate boundaries and secure expressions of emotional intimacy that are not sexualized in the home and community.

The term "sexual orientation" does not distinguish between the individual, feelings of sexual attraction to a particular person or object, or the individual's sexual behavior or preferences. Thence, a person practicing pan-sexuality, which is diverse sexual expression, could not be discriminated against even with children present.

Are the government and judicial systems playing games with children, forcing upstanding citizens to tolerate all forms of diverse sexual expression against their will, conscience and or religious freedom?

Why is such a small, unrepresentative clique within the GLBT subcultures wanting same-sex marriage? Mr. John McKellar, Executive Director of H.O.P.E. (Homosexuals Opposed to Pride Extremism) has stated, and I quote:

"It is selfish and rude for the gay community to push same-sex marriage legislation and redefine society's traditions and conventions for our own self-indulgence .... Federal and provincial laws are being changed and the traditional values are being compromised just to appease a tiny, self anointed clique."

In my opinion, same-sex marriage will put the human rights of the individual in a higher place than what is best for society, families and especially children. Canadians should decide and not judges. Human rights were meant to protect the individual and not groups. In this crucial debate, children's human rights have become secondary, ignored and denied.

Moreover, if Canadians do not stop same-sex marriage, we will lose all of our freedom to address issues around sexuality with moral and religious vigor. By the way, the gay agenda in schools may owe its origin to Marshall Kirk and Erastes Pill who published the article "The Overhauling of Straight America". If we do not stop Bill C-38, the gay agenda will prevail in every Canadian public and private academic environment, inundating school environments with advocacy and sexually explicit resources and curriculum that mock parents' authority, moral rectitude, and religious traditions.

Already this is happening under the banner of anti-bullying, safe schools' policies and through Gay-Straight Alliances. In reality, these policies provide a direct legal entranceway of indoctrination, desensitization, personal and political recruitment of our vulnerable children by some gay activists within our schools while silencing all students who oppose the gay agenda.

Similarly, all those who oppose the Canadian laws recognizing same-sex marriage would not be allowed to speak, express or gesture opposition, even on religious grounds. Look how the hate crime legislation Bill C-250 has instilled fear and is silencing the church. Did you know that the separation of church and state was enacted to protect religious freedom and conscience? Will religious freedom be trumped by sexual freedom? Will religious faith expressions and practices by individuals and organizations be prohibited by such bills as C-38 and others? We have an obligation, for the sake of our children, to speak freely and to direct the laws of our land.

Will the Canadian government and judges legally promote unhealthy and unsound environments that encourage motherless and fatherless units through same-sex marriage? Ultimately, children will be the real victims and losers if same-sex marriage is legally enacted. What hope can I offer innocent children who have no voice? What price is Canada willing to pay for sexual freedom, tolerance and diversity? Is that price children's lives? Government and judges need to advance and defend marriage as between a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others for the sake of our children.


The 2009 Woman of Faith Award
Dawn Stefanowicz - Founder, The Ministry of Dawn Stefanowicz
London, Ontario Canada (http://www.dawnstefanowicz.org)


Internationally recognized speaker and author Dawn Stefanowicz was at the forefront of educating thousands [millions] of Christians in North America in 2008 about the consequences for children who have been exposed to the negative influences of homosexual parents. Dawn grew up in a homosexual household during the 1960s and 1970s in Toronto , Canada , thus exposing her to many different people in homosexual, lesbian and transsexual subcultures, as well as the explicit sexual practices of these groups. Sadly, she lost her father to AIDS in 1991. Despite having faced so much adversity as a child, Dawn Stefanowicz has overcome the effects of being raised under a homosexual parent and is now prospering in a ministry that seeks to help parents protect their kids from the destructiveness of the homosexual lifestyle. Her new testimonial book, Out From Under, is a must read. We are proud to present Dawn Stefanowicz with our 2009 Woman of Faith Award for the outstanding work that she did to positively impact the American culture in the previous twelve months. Please see these links for details:

http://jameshartlinereport.blogspot.com/2009/01/2009-obadiah-awards-for-outstanding.html and http://tmgspeakers.com/SpeakerNews.html 

Dawn Stefanowicz is an internationally recognized speaker, author, media spokesperson, as well as a licensed accountant and home educator. She acknowledges that children are impacted and influenced long-term by various family structures and living arrangements. Dawn addresses the impact of legislation affecting children. She advocates for children and families, pertaining to marriage, parenting, sexuality, and education. She has testified in Hartford, Connecticut; Boston, Massachusetts; Tallahassee, Florida; Annapolis, Maryland; Des Moines, Iowa; and to the Washington Supreme Court Justices. In August, 2009, written testimony was submitted to the Australian Senate Legal and Constitutional Affairs Standing Committee. Late June 2010, written testimony was submitted to senators in Argentina. Then, in October, Dawn presented to party leaders in Paraguay. She recently addressed the Canadian Senate Standing Committee on Legal and Constitutional Affairs on hate crime legislation. Dawn speaks to a wide range of groups and has spoken in person to audiences in Canada, the United States, Ireland, Mexico, and Paraguay. Her articles have been published, including "Same-Sex Marriage: Have the Best Interests of Children Been Considered?" (Various Publications), "An Inside Look At Gay Parenting" (The Therapist, a Professional Magazine of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists), "Silencing the Problems of Children Raised in Same-Sex Households" (REALity by REAL Women of Canada), "Changes in Life, Dawn Stefanowicz" (She Your Magazine for Women) and others. Her world-wide media experiences include television, radio and print. Dawn is a resource to family policy, legislative, medical, research, and scholastic organizations. She offers a safe place for adult children from similar households. Out From Under: The Impact Of Homosexual Parenting is available by calling 1-877-421- 7323 (READ). The Spanish publication of Out From Under is El Impacto De La Paternidad HomosexualSalir Del Hoyo is available at: https://www.createspace.com/3927446. The Italian publication of Out From Under is Fuori Dal buio: La Mia Vita Con Un Padre Gay is available at:  http://www.ares.mi.it/index.php?pagina=libro&id=552&q=Fuori-dal-buio   . Resources are available at http://www.dawnstefanowicz.org. Dawn has been married for twenty-eight years and has two children.

Order Dawn’s provocative and compelling new book today and find out why clear definitions for marriage, spouse, parenting, and family need to be protected for the best interests of children. Children’s futures depend on us.

OUT FROM UNDER: The IMPACT of HOMOSEXUAL PARENTING

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-Book Reviews-

OUT FROM UNDER: The IMPACT of HOMOSEXUAL PARENTING is a compelling, fast-paced, and no-holds-barred narrative of one child’s journey from birth to the end of innocence—and beyond—as the daughter of a homosexual father. Dawn Stefanowicz honestly and sympathetically exposes the transfixing saga of unexpected emotional tangles, discarded dreams, and a desperate search for Daddy’s love. Sobering and colorful, revealing while upholding a standard for good taste, the book uncovers Dawn’s shocking experiences, confused responses, and ultimate redemption as she compassionately reaches out to her father, facing a tragic death from AIDS, in 1991. Now an outspoken advocate of laws protecting children, it took Dawn into her early 30s to realize how her “alternative” rearing impacted her. See how she confronts the forbidden darkness of sexual activities, gets out from under the foreboding weight of family secrets, and finds a future filled with surprising hope, happiness, and healing. *Release date October 2007.

Press here to read Book Review "Out From Under" by The Canada Post in the United Kingdom

Press here to read Book Review "A review of Out From Under: The Impact of Homosexual Parenting by Dawn Stefanowicz" by Bill Muehlenberg

Press here to read Book Review "Out From Under: The Impact Of Homosexual Parenting by REAL Women of Canada

Press here to read review "When Dad is Homosexual" by Gail Besse of The National Catholic Register

Press here to read "Listening to the Children of Gay Parents" by Marjorie Campbell

Press here
to read a review by Rory Leishman of The London Free Press

Press here to read a review by Janice Graham of The Standard of Liberty Voice

Press here to read a critique by Dr. Gerard J.M. van den Aardweg, psychologist and author. This critique is published in the Empirical Journal Same-Sex Sexual Behavior and the Dutch version appears in “Nucleus(Ghent, Belgium).

Press here to read a review by Tony Gosgnach, Assistant Editor of The Interim.